My mom sends me "Blog Fodder"...

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member5917576.htm


I received this link, along with a description funny enough to post on "www.postcardsfromyomomma.com" (but I didn't because I promised).

So I checked out the link.

Now it's sad when even I don't know where to begin. (Mostly because I'm not sure where it begins or ends... sheesh!) So I'm just going to start at the top...

"sexykayz" is looking for "a nice guy."
"sexykayz" has one clothed picture and seven cleavage shots in various states of undress.
"sexykayz" says "Im NOT looking 2 hook up or have sex. so PLEASE if thats all you want dont contact me because the second you try to make a pass at me or tell me my tits are nice, you will be blocked from contacting me"

"sexykayz" is a walking contradiction. When I looked at this, I was torn between laughing at her, and wanting to help her. Obviously we can see which side is winning.

The obvious thing for me to do would be to start ripping apart her physical appearance. I could say things like "Watch out for this one, people, she's rocking the myspace angles*!" or "Holy Tweezers, chick! WTF happened to her face!" But the sad reality is that she is making some of the same mistakes a ton of young girls make. There's absolutely NO WAY she doesn't see how the photographs she's taken of herself (and posted on the internet for all to see) force someone to look at her in a sexual light. The photographs don't inspire thoughts of art, beauty, class, or intelligence. They say "look at me I'm an attention whore, and sex sells."

But don't tell her her "tits" are nice. I understand that they are spilling out all over her personal ad, and that she looks like a whore, but really, she wants to be loved for *who* she is. Not what she looks like. Sadly enough she's 21, has a six month old, and she's still a baby herself. Looking at her page all I can think is that she has NO IDEA who she is, or what she wants. But she sure wants someone to come along and do everything for her.

This girl needs to do the rest of woman kind a favor, and either get some self-respect and pull her head out of her ass, or just admit she wants to be viewed as a sex object to validate her short comings. But posting a bunch of half naked pictures and expecting true nice guys to contact her is a bit outlandish.


*myspace angles- photographs taken at angles as to make one who is not so attractive appear as though they are.
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